As sandwich parents, we’re constantly juggling competing demands. Raising children requires us to lean heavily on our strengths just to get through each day. But what happens when the very qualities that helped us survive start working against us? The Superpower That Stops Working Most of us have that one thing we’re known for… ourContinueContinue reading “When Your Greatest Strength Becomes Your Biggest Problem”
Category Archives: DEVELOPING ROUTINES
Back to BASICS
What can we do as parents when the responsibilities of work and family add up be over 100% of your time, energy and headspace? What can we do as a family when everyone is breaking down and new problems crop up everyday, not to mention longer term problems we can already identify that will biteContinueContinue reading “Back to BASICS”
Schedules Serve Us, We Don’t Serve Our Schedule
Schedules are designed to support how we want to live our lives. Schedules are a tool for us to manage time. And time… well, it’s a nonrenewable resource. By that, I mean, we cannot create time that we have already spent. Time is not something we can get more of. It just keeps ticking away.ContinueContinue reading “Schedules Serve Us, We Don’t Serve Our Schedule”
Trauma-Informed Goals
Great ideas are just things that have already happened… in the future. You’ve already done it. It was/will be fantastic. You know it. It’s coming. We are now, in the present, just figuring out the ‘how’ and ‘enjoying’ the journey there. The uncertainty can either trigger us into a place of fear or motivate usContinueContinue reading “Trauma-Informed Goals”
Short Progress Report
Genuine gratitude comes from authentically and somatically experiencing ‘I like this. I want this. I am happy with this. I enjoy this. I feel safe with this.’
Creating Good Addictions
We think of addictions as bad. I’ve stayed away from drugs and alcohol; my drug of choice is food.
Family Meetings
A professor/mentor of mine once told the young mother me that one of the most valuable piece of advice she received was to run regular family meetings.
Atomic Habits by James Clear
James Clear’s book is all about how to build productive habits and how to stop destructive habits.
The Rs: Routine and Ritual, Reflection and Restoration
Walking the dog and showering. Brushing teeth and driving. What do these things have in common?
From Changing Table to Standing Desk!
Reuse, recycle, and repurpose. COVID challenge results in creative problem solving!